To have a garter or not? Is one of the most commonly talked about subject from brides in many wedding forums. Some say its a tacky old tradition, some love this unique item of clothing they will probably only wear for their wedding day and save as an heirloom for their future daughters wedding. SO!! why have a garter??
What is the history of th ewedding garter? It all dates back to the old days (like most wedding traditions) to when a wedding was not finalised by just the exchange of vows, but a nearly married coupld had to 'comsumate' in front of their wedding guests (the witnesses) to 'seal the deal' lets just say, hehe.
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This would have been a pretty 'organic, natural' moment to witness and as such a part of the brides clothing was seen as good luck, so all the single guests would tear at the brides clothes/dress to get a bit of good luck to bring a loved one to their own lives. Seem pretty spiritual doesnt it, something more symbolic back then. As most wedding traditions are symbolic of the new commitment and life the new married couple are entering together. So having a garter around the leg is a toned down version of this (you dont want your guests tearing apart your $3000 dress!!!!!!!!! agh!!!) The garter is pretty sexy on the brides thigh to this symbolises the thigh and the husband taking the garter off symbolises him taking away your single life and memories and 'throwing' thos good times and luck into a crowd of single males. In a way its like your marriage is helping others find true love. So just as a veil was originally used to keep the crumbs from your husband breaking first bread over your head to symbolise his dominance from falling in your hair and face, the garter is just another manipulated tradition to suit modern society. Wow the old days weddings were full on. your husband breaking bread over your head, making love in front of your guests and then having your clothes torn to pieces by all the single unmarried guests... AGH!
So really the garter is really not so bad after reading the history and what its purpose is. And the end of the day its really up to you. There are so many beautiful garters out their to suit your dress, wedding theme and lingerie, that you dont have to look far for something truely elegant and unique without being tacky. At the end of the day a garter makes a great addition to your wedding day (or any day for that matter) lingerie, great to spice up your wedding night... you know what i mean :)
Natalie Briggs
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